I am a person that does not like conflict in any form – even in my own mind. If I am being honest with myself – in the past I have been more likely to not make any decision and let things naturally evolve rather than face the hard choices. However as I have grown older and life more complicated this is less of an option. Instead I have learnt the hard way about not wanting to please other people but to put myself first and making sensible decisions that way. This may at first seem incredibly selfish but in my experience doing things to please other people has been deleterious to my soul and self-esteem and in the long term may not have been the right thing to do. And now moving forward I will have to learn to be true to myself when faced with choices.